Welcome to PC!:
I hope you will find the information and the support you may be seeking.

I am sorry you are in this situation.

I am going through this, too, after 27 years with my H, whom I'd always considered my best friend, in addition to being my husband.

He has been involved in several practices which I personally find repulsive. I have been very shocked! I do not know this m

In all honesty, he was "caught" planning against our relationship 14 years ago. I
had found a deposit slip to a bank on the
other side of a U.S.!

Upon confrontation, he had offered up the explanation that his BP had caused him hypersexuality and other complications. His therapist seemed to agree with him.
So, for 14 years, he has been frequently telling me how sorry he is.... Further stating he never would have never done it if he was not I'll with BPII .

Just about 6 weeks ago, I'd found out that he has carried on with this for the past 14 years! He's a very believable liar. I had no idea! I know people often say: " the wife had to know.". I used to think this, as well! It is not true, however

. I wish I had known... And I am one to take an action, to confront him and to make something happen!

Hehasbeen very proficient at living a double life. I do not understand the mentality that goes along with this.

He has also been participating in a lifestyle I find repulsive. It's just unbelievable... And VErY hurtful!

He shows absolutely no remorse and treats me like I was found out and am untrustworthy, etc, I do not know this guy!
Seriously.

So, while things might be difficult while deciding just what to do about your relationship and your life, it's critical to extract ANY type of an unfaithful person out of your life, ASAP, even with some initial "heartache."

My heart goes out to you!
Please rake good care of YOU!