why the attack on down, she is only trying to relate her experiences. ppl get hired by their own merit. your skills are just part of what you bring to the table. how well you work with others, including recuirters really paint a picture. Try to get help with interviewing skills, the first minute or 2 of an interview sets the stage for what the interviewer thinks, there may be some fine tells that practice with someone might help in this area.
talk to yourself in a mirror and see if you are making a good first impression.
just food for thought
oh and blanche next time you see me ask me to show you how i am doing my hair on wednesday!!