That is my feeling on it as well. As some kindly online advice stated, this all just leaves me in an unhappy bind. I am expected to remain faithful and loyal to her alone (and i want to) but her other expectation, that she never even mentioned before is that i should just be happy without any physical affection anymore. She says it is hard for her to be physically affectionate, yet she didn't have a single problem being affectionate for many months after we started dating. Not one moment or statement that raised a red flag. Just, bam, one day she was a different person and the expectation is that i am still good with that. It is not just that my physical, sexual, and emotional needs aren't being met, it is also how undesirable and ugly it makes me feel on a daily basis. If i try to initiate anything other than a simple peck goodbye, she pulls away, or she magically has to go to the bathroom, or make food, or make a phone call. I am tired of being made to feel abnormal for wanting a perfectly normal relationship facet.