Is this your first child?

I'd love to tell you that things get better after your baby is born...but with the late-night feedings and sleep deprivation and postpartum hormones and leaky boobs...it takes a while!

Then again, my relationship had its own 'issues' so maybe that was the problem too.

But yeah - a lot of men just get worried that they'll hurt the baby, or hurt you, or whatever. He might think that you can't, and he doesn't want to pressure you into it? If that makes any sense. He's ignoring you out of love...not wanting you to feel like you have to do something if your body isn't capable of doing it. Maybe he just doesn't know what's okay and what's not okay.

That, and, for most women, our sex drive goes crazy when we're pregnant