Yes you spoke without really thinking things through , it happens.

I do think your wife has a right to be upset about this... everyone has a right to there feelings.

I’m sure things are very awkward. Give her the space she wants/needs and I’m sure once you can both have a discussion about the pros and cons of having a child right now might not be the best timing.

Do you both have a plan for the future? Jobs with higher pay? Buying a home? Trying to save X dollars a month, etc etc etc

You made a mistake, everyone does. Be kind to yourself.