I will be seeing a counselor for my own assistance and help. As far as marriage therapy, i don't have the money right now to afford it but i am trying to see if my job is able to provide this with employee assistance. That is the only thing i can see helping at this point. I just can't figure out why this doesn't bother her, like at all. She is considerate in a lot of things and sends little notes to tell me she loves me. Physically, it is very difficult for me going this long without any release. She definitely turns me on still even with all the emotional toll this is taking. I guess counseling is really our only chance at having some normalcy and passion restored to our marriage.