I see my T at her home which brings up certain issues for me, as I 'know' things without googling them. T is very discreet and family stays out of her way when I (and other clients I expect) arrive, but I've still seen people and things that I think about and compare my life to. It's evitable and I think a sign of a good T if they are comfortable with discussing how their living arrangements make us feel. I haven't googled my T and don't think I would while seeing her, but I don't think there's anything wrong with that. If a T didn't want people to know something, presumably they wouldn't put it online.
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