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Originally Posted by Louella
I’m not sure if this is the right place to ask... should a t have an opinion on what you say? For example I told my t some stuff and I described it as normal but they said that it didn’t sound normal and was abuse. I was a bit taken aback and wasn’t sure if it’s normal for a t to share an opinion like that?
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The one I see would do that. She has no qualms about calling people in my past abusive, calling people I am involved with now abusive, and even calling me abusive. Sometimes I like to say that she's obsessed with abuse, but if I'm honest, she has had grounds for all of the times she has said something or somebody was abusive.
Personally, I have no problem with a therapist sharing such an opinion. Whatever they might say about withholding judgement and blah blah, they are all human and have opinions. I'd rather know what those opinions are most of the time. I mean, I don't want her opinion on every little thing, but generally, I wouldn't like it if she withheld her opinions.