Louella, is what you told the therapist something going on currently, or something in the past? I don't think there's necessarily a should on this subject, although I have read where many people have been hoping their therapists would name their experiences because they would have found that validating - and when their therapists don't, it makes them doubt whether what they experienced was "that bad." So I tend to lean towards the side of therapists voicing an opinion for that reason.