Hi folks! New to the forum and this seemed the most likely sub-forum for me to jump into first.

Mega long story short, I'm a married Hetero guy whose marriage had always been 'awkward', and after many years my wife and I figured out what was going on and came to terms with it. We're now in a happy, though somewhat unexpected and surreal, place.

A couple of months ago we started to slowly be more open to other folk about how we lived our lives, about my sexual 'oddity' and the such like. This is still an ongoing process, and although mostly positive it's not been without it's fair share of drama and emotion.

Depending upon the RL context I tend to identify either as an 'sort of effective asexual' or 'sort of objectum', though I think my favoured label is 'inorganic psychesexual'. My full micro-label list is hideously over-long and extra, so I won't bore anyone with it, lol.

Anyway, that's my intro.