Michael2Wolves: my suggestion to you is not to destroy it but instead concentrate on control so that it serves you, not the other way around. I literally cannot survive without my "rage" but I also would have been destroyed by my rage had I not mastered it and learned to wield it as a weapon. If possible, face this issue how a practitioner of the martial arts would. They train their bodies and minds to become weapons; it may help if you do the same.

As for how other people feel with something "inside of [them] that [they] cannot control" - I know for a fact that people enjoy being out of control because they have said so verbatim. They revel in being out of control and hurting other people is simply part of the fun.

-jimi-: The problem is that people gladly choose to reject self-control for their own amusement, even when that self-control would be trivial. They chase the happiness dragon no matter where it leads, and they don't care who they harm to catch it. Whether they "break" or not is not an issue.