I wish you the best of luck these next few weeks. I would be so stressed so I applaud you on staying calm. Even now I feel nervous for you. Having a child when I am not ready is one of my biggest fears in life. Regardless, countless individuals are put in that situation and make it through. I am a product of an unexpected pregnancy but, according to my mother, I am the best accident she ever had haha. You and your wife are in my thoughts. I hope things resolve between you two.