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Old Jul 08, 2019, 07:11 AM
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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch View Post
Oh dear.

I can truly see why your wife would be so hurt.

Take it from me. No one ever truly has enough money to raise a child. They cost a fortune but budgets can always be revised.
That’s true.

But last time OP posted he said neither of them have a job and they live with relatives. I see that changed as they did get jobs recently. It’s good. But let them work for at least a year to get some income! Place to live! Save money a bit so they can buy stuff for a kid. If she got a job like a month ago why must she have a kid right now?

Budgets can be revised but there is nothing to revise if income only starting coming in very recently.

What’s the urgent need to have a child right now? Why does it need to be now?
Thanks for this!
Crazy Hitch, Middlemarcher, Open Eyes