I'm so sorry for what happened, TunedOut You're doing good by letting them go their own way. I agree that their reaction towards you pointing them was over the top. Don' let that bother you too much. Perhaps it is a wise choice to let them on their own for a little bit. Keep in contact but give them space. I'm so sorry that things are being so hard for you You're a WONDERFUL person. Don't you EVER forget that! Sending many safe, warm hugs and many good and positive vibrations to you and your family, TunedOut!