I can be kind of a flirt, always have been. Once I was probably flirting too much. My husband mentioned it and said he was kind of hurt by it. To be honest, I hadn't realized that he was bothered, and I was glad he told me. I have kept that in mind going forward, because I don't want to be hurtful toward him, and I've toned it down.

I agree with divine. How it makes you feel is important here. I'm sorry he doesn't seem to see it that way.