do you want to see her because you are near her now? how important is it? if it's important then drive and go.

if it's not then don't.

if you are too pissed off and caught in the anger of the issue then forget it and pretty much assume that this will carry over into all future aspects of the relationship and eventually be the root of ending it (I came all the way over to your country and you couldn't even do this for me????)

balls in your court. but it seems like you already made the decision since you decided not to make any other plans.