I can understand that. You do however have to remember that those people who do send those virtual hugs are sending them with care in mind and for them to send a lasting message to you. When people read a post here many do not have the words to express a long thought out way to express to say they care so they say it with a virtual hug which is there way in simpler terms that they care. It is not suppose to come across as any less or anything than a long response for someone to take away. It is just suppose to come across as a way to say they are thinking of you and they care.