When you asked what I was thinking and I shrugged, the real answer was that I realized I was describing an archetype with which you would theoretically be consistent, and that you would be aware of this as well. I was trying to figure out what the difference is, because I genuinely don't have those feelings towards you. I'm pretty sure you think I do but I really really really don't. I don't know why you're not my type, you're just not. You're too safe and warm and fuzzy? I dunno. I guess I don't really see you as a masculine figure? ... but I feel weird telling you that.