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Old Jul 09, 2019, 04:09 AM
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It is a big change, @Udderlyconfused It's VERY likely that your wife is very confused at the moment as well. You both need to talk about it and take a decision. She has to decide whether she wants to continue this or not. It's not an easy decision so it will likely take time. She definitely needs to ACCEPT that you have a child - in the sense that she has to recognize the reality of the situation, but that doesn't mean that she has to stay in it. Did you two plan to have children in the future? How much do you believe this changes your marriage exactly? Likely a lot, but there are questions that you may want to ask her. Communication is fundamental in ANY marriage. I hope you'll both be able to reach an agreement. Can I ask you how long have you two been married? She may even decide that she doesn't want children and it'd still be a legitimate decision. In that case it will probably be best for both of you to move on from the relationship - even though I understand how PAINFUL that will be. I hope things will turn out well for ALL of you, your daughter included. Please take care of yourself and keep us posted. Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, UdderlyConfused, and to your OWN family!

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