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what is the difference between those people and the ones who do become abusers? Why do some people continue the cycle? And why are others able to overcome their inclinations, or never have them to begin with?

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As someone that was sexually, physically and emotionally abused for ten years as a child - I personally decided that I would never hurt another in such a way and in forty years of living I never have.

So to me - the difference is a Choice..... Mind over Matter.