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Old Jul 09, 2019, 08:06 AM
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Originally Posted by divine1966 View Post
That’s true.


But last time OP posted he said neither of them have a job and they live with relatives. I see that changed as they did get jobs recently. It’s good. But let them work for at least a year to get some income! Place to live! Save money a bit so they can buy stuff for a kid. If she got a job like a month ago why must she have a kid right now?


Budgets can be revised but there is nothing to revise if income only starting coming in very recently.


What’s the urgent need to have a child right now? Why does it need to be now?


We both have full time jobs right now. I’m actually looking at getting a better full time job.

At this point she has seen the logic in my decision. So she’s waiting
Thanks for this!
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