It seems like you've made the right decision, @worknonit80. I understand why you'd feel hurt Hang in there. Give yourself time to heal and move on. Acknowledge that you've made the BEST decision for you and for her and that you'll meet someone who will actualy Love you and appreciate you for who you TRULY are and who has eyes only for you. Keep dating, I'm sure you'll find the right person. If you want to take a break, that's good as well. Jus do whathever you need to take your mind off of her. Focus on yourself for now. You deserve MUCH, MUCH better and you know that as well. Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, worknonit80, and to ALL the people you Love and who TRULY Love you for who you TRULY are!