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Originally Posted by Ezrigirl
In all fairness, I will be drinking every night for a few months and maybe a year or more until I settle into being alone for the rest of my natural life. Have been debating with myself will I be with someone or not for a long time. Then it dawned on me, I will never have a long term relationship. Drinking, is a coping skill. Now, even if I decided to drink every single day until I die. Well, dying as a drunk is a dime a dozen. It is so common it is not even a news story.
If dealing with a drunk who is a dime a dozen is unhealthy for you. Your going to find watching the news, or reading the news online, very unhealthy for you my friend. Take for example school shootings when it becomes breaking news. Yes, for you it would be unhealthy for you. For the American public, seeing school shootings on TV has turned into entertainment. Your going to have to accept, what is unhealthy for you to see or read, in America, it has turned into entertainment.
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Well, I think you may need to go and read the rules of this forum because some of your comments about drinking just may be a trigger for those struggling with those issue. This also goes with the issue of abuse. You have to realize what sort of population you are dealing with here. I suggest you review the rules on the board before you go overboard. I do not want to be a moderator, but I do know some of the comments have about abuse have been an issue for me. The drinking is not an issue for me so that other than knowing it is not healthy has not been a problem. If pointing this out and referring her to review the rules is also against the rules than I guess I am in violation myself and I shall leave the forum as well. All I know is I signed up for this forum to be a safe place to come to and to feel support from the other members.