Well, I think you may need to go and read the rules of this forum because some of your comments about drinking just may be a trigger for those struggling with those issue. This also goes with the issue of abuse. You have to realize what sort of population you are dealing with here. I suggest you review the rules on the board before you go overboard. I do not want to be a moderator, but I do know some of the comments have about abuse have been an issue for me. The drinking is not an issue for me so that other than knowing it is not healthy has not been a problem. If pointing this out and referring her to review the rules is also against the rules than I guess I am in violation myself and I shall leave the forum as well. All I know is I signed up for this forum to be a safe place to come to and to feel support from the other members.