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Originally Posted by theoretical
I'm always bored.
I like being challenged, and I think that's why I tend to indulge in relationships that involve manipulation and control, because I see it as a challenge. It's a game. Otherwise, I like a lot of sports and other physical activities such as hiking, card games, arguing, learning new skills, etc. I've done a lot of weird stuff for the sake of curiosity.
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But I don’t see how you manipulate and control anyone if these people in fact take advantage of your valuable time and energy by making you listening to all their boring venting. In what way you manipulate these people when they are the ones benefiting here? It sounds like they manipulate you into providing them with pseudo- therapy for free and a shoulder to cry on, sounds boring. Fighting boredom with more boredom. Not sure where is the challenge there?
Learning some new exciting skill would be more challenge, wouldn’t it be?