That's a difficult position to be in. It is amazing though that their education is paid for and you are offering so much by staying as you are and allowing the disability to continue. It is a great service to them and one you can be proud of.

I know you mentioned your youngest children are 12 and 14. Those are difficult years. I have little ones, but I am also a stepmother and went through the teenage years. They benefit greatly by having you home and available even if they are fairly independent. Just keeping a constant presence makes a huge difference.

Thank you for your service to our country. I appreciate you.