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i think that everybody has a different process kalamity...i got pretty triggered when i first read the thread too. (you probably could tell by my post) .. but after i reread it i saw it a little differently... that isn't to say that i think that the abuser isn't responsible or shouldn't be held accountable...

your not stupid... and i hope nothing i said made you feel that way... lyn

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((((lyn)))) you've never posted anything that made me feel stupid or bad in any way...i just maybe need to re-read this thread myself...maybe i've took it the wrong way?

take care and stay cool