Hey Bird Dancer,
I hope you see this post. I have looked for yours in order to quote you and cannot find your post. (So tired and...)
I really admire all you have done lately, while in the midst of grieving. I am glad you can/do honor yourself by deciding what you are and are not up to at this time.
I hope the decreased stress level will help you tremendously. It's such a pleasure to have you here with us! Thanks for all you contribute.