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Originally Posted by theoretical
Absolutely true. But how, and how to defend them in a healthy way.
I don't get bothered easily and I've learned to restrain myself somewhat, but in the past, I've threatened the lives of friends and family members over minor inconveniences. It can get bad real quick.
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Okay, if that's the case, you may want to set boundaries with her in writing rather than in person or over the phone.
This way, you have time to think about what you write in response to whatever she writes.
If she starts guilt-tripping you over text or email and you see yourself getting increasingly frustrated with her, walk away from your phone or computer, take a deep breath, go do some processing or go do something else and come back to it when you are calmer.