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Originally Posted by Bill3
Maybe you could avoid indefinitely, but to me, in order to set a boundary, one needs to say it out loud.
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I agree. It needs to be made known.
If (when) she crosses that boundary, I'll just walk away. Or that's the plan, at least.
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Originally Posted by ennie
Okay, if that's the case, you may want to set boundaries with her in writing rather than in person or over the phone.
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That's a good idea. Also, if I put it in writing, then I've got a documentation of what I actually said. She has a habit of twisting words; e.g. insisting that some plan she was trying to convince me of was actually my idea. Not that I've ever fallen for her ham-handed attempts at manipulation, but she still attempted to manipulate me, which is rude.