I typed out a reply to Thirty Shades’ thread on Respect but deleted it...

I was wondering... do you feel safe to post or do you feel there is likely to be someone who is silently (or possibly otherwise) judging you

I feel bad for all the depressed people who have nowhere safe to share their feelings..

And all those who end up as a “su statistic”

Recently I’ve become more “invisible” in real life... (a recent incident which would likely be judged as trivial by people who don’t have anxiety) I’m not sure if it’s me or that the couple of people in question (irl) are just rude and mean

ETA it takes a long time to shave off my fur etc.. and to then be ignored after I’ve said maybe one or two neutral or positive words