Fuzzybear, I think you know me by now as I am already approaching being on this forum 1 month and for many it probably feels like I have been here many years. I have always been told to speak from my heart and tell it like I feel. The only time I have been silenced from that is during the 15 months I was help captive. Sometimes, when I speak from my heart I know I may ruffle some peoples feathers or in your case mat your fur. For me though if it is coming from my heart and it is truly how I feel than I can't make everyone happy. I think it works the same way for making a post about something that you feel is important to you. If you truly feel deep down inside that something is important to you then say it. Not everyone may feel the same way as you, but you still got it out there and from what I have been told by my parents, therapist, psychiatrist it is always better to let things out. So what a few people may not be on the same page as you. In the end you got it off your chest and that is what is important.