Fuzzybear, You and I both know people have the choice to respond to a post in any manner they wish, but they also know when signing up for a forum such as this one what they are getting into and what type of members are within this forum.
When I signed up for this forum I thought to myself, "Oh this is awesome a safe place where members can bounce helpful ideas off of each other on how to ease each others pain." Not a place to place judgement on others or send triggering messages to possibly set a members or make them feel worse. That is the total opposite of safe and helpful in my opinion, Sure people are going to disagree with certain methods, but when a post becomes unhelpful in a way where it is unhealthy to that person and I don't care what it might be than it should either not be said at all or deleted. This goes for any of my posts as well.