I know my exT felt he had followed the termination process satisfactorily but I didn't know that this is what he was doing, he had plans to shut down his clinical work that weren't shared until a month after the termination when we met with GP to discuss my confused texts and emails and depression. Maybe if he had prepared me by discussing the fact he was going to do this I might not have had such a bad reaction. Instead I was still clinging to the fact that he said we would finish the work together.