I use to go to church and would talk to one of the mums there then last year we started meeting up outside of church to the point we would see each other most weekends and do things with the kids. She has bpd and after a very difficult therapy session I didnt phone her when i said i would half an hour later she phoned me up shouting down the phone to me and since then sometimes I experience anxiety around her. She wanted to meet up in the summer holidays and I said that I was busy but had lots of time in sept. She deleted me off Facebook and when I realised I asked her why and she said she didnt think we were friends anymore. We met for a hot choc and it was ok then I didnt hear from her for 2 weeks so I messaged her about going to the cinema with the kids so we went to the cinema together and now it's been another 2 weeks and theres been no contact from her and she hasn't re added me onto fb. I dont know what to do I'm tempted to just wait to see if shes going to contact me as I've made the effort the last 2 times and I start feeling really anxious thinking about contacting her but I also miss her. I dont know what to do for the best