It sounds to me like you really love your sister and you miss her. I hope the two of you are able to get back together and talk about some things. I understand how you feel about your sister’s behavior. Personally I don’t think you can share with her everything you feel about it because she has a right to be who she wants to be. It does sound like she truly loves you and your family and will enjoy being involved in your lives. I see no reason you can’t involve her in your life but with certain limits. Surely she doesn’t include you on every aspect of her life either. Best of luck to you. I truly hope it works out well for you and her both. [emoji3590]