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Originally Posted by tecomsin
Hey WC, your so gracious to respond to so many people here. I don't know how you do it, with so much going on in your own life.
Yes I am on my own. My son is enjoying his weekend with friends. I don't feel desperate or anything and also don't want to make anyone else sick with whatever ails me.
The police will not tell you who contacted them and my experience is that if I try to ask them that question, it is taken as an indication of paranoia because no one would call the police just for their own ulterior motives... or so they believe.
I didn't know my sister disagreed about something I had decided about what i wanted done with what she had decided was my part of my dad's estate. It's a long story but technically she is the sole inheritor, executor and trustee, so she has all the cards.
She didn't tell me she disagreed with me. Instead she convinced my son I was urgently ill and he needed to get me hospitalized.
Once I wrote to her that I had changed my position to what she wanted, then she hasn't contacted me since. She had no genuine concern for me. She required that i change my mind without even telling me she disagreed.
She always had to have 100% her own way, hold all the cards and now try to destroy the relationship I have with my son. I am a bit angry at him to for going along with charade on her part for as long as he did, and texting her what he was discussing with me in the middle of our dinner conversation. It feels like a huge invasion of privacy.
My son at first didn't believe me when I said she had never discussed her concerns with me, but instead went directly to him. She also misrepresented my position to him. It was only slightly off from what she wanted but she made it into an extreme position so again she looks like the good guy and I look like the bad one. She has done this to me my entire life. It was my mistake for telling her I'd be discussing the division of my part of the estate with my son at dinner on wednesday. She used the intervening time to manipulate him into interrogating my mental status and questioning everything that I said.
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Hi Again!
I actually find reading and responding here quite relaxing. It also often shifts me into a better frame of mind, not always, yet often enough to be rewarding!
As of late, I find my frame of mind shifting too frequently... and maybe getting a little too dark for my liking! Lol!
I am very happy to be interacting with you!
Wow! Your sister!
I guess one would have to be unbalanced in order to disagree with her stance? Quite condescending.
I am also saddened your son did not see through her manipulation. I do hope he will be "on guard" in the future.
Sisters can be very trying at times. I have a few of them.
I do wish you a speedy recovery, tecomsin!

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