i have been married for 3 years. after 3 years now, my husband and i often get into arguments that we quarrel about the stupidest thing. but the problem is, whenever we get into argument, my husband has this bad temper problem and often ask for a divorce, whenever, i hear that, i respond hysterically and would start having suicidal thoughts. - i had mild depression issues in the past, but recovered. it seems that the word "divorce" triggers my behavior. i have told him not to mention the word divorce and to work on his anger management problems but things do not change. i have suggested that we go for marriage counselling together but he rejects the idea as well. i m just feel so tired and meaningless about life nowadays.