@starryprince, your gut reactions are typically right... and your gut seems to be telling you these are all red flags indicating you should back away. She is crossing boundaries, is disrespecting your own needs to take things slowly with this group, she is divulging too much, and is already questioning your spiritual beliefs? Red flags all over the place. While it's great you want to be open and make new friendships, it sounds like this is not the kind of friend you need.