That is very cool :-)

I find it amazing that I can tell myself 'this person is only human' all I like I can't really grasp that until I've got some time and space and (most importantly) I encounter them in a different setting where the power dynamic is altered.

Sometimes... I'm kind of amazed at how much (in hindsight) I idealized... It is quite a revelation, actually. I felt kind of magnetized by this person... They had a magical power to make everything all better (at times) with their soothing words... Then with time and space and a change in context they seem much more ordinary. And I wonder... How on earth did I give you that power. I mean really, I wish I knew that secret. I'd volountarily give it to someone who was good for me. Only... Feelings don't seem to work that way (very often).

It is great that the anger and hurt kind of dissolved away with the realization that he has human frailty's. However you spell that...

:-)