I am just discovering all the neglect in infancy. I had been distracted by the other abuses in childhood and none of my T’s went any farther back than when the more obvious abuse started. My mother kept me away from my aunt with lies for many years and now my aunt and I are connecting. Even though my aunt has her struggles too in some ways I am at least getting the adult to adult mom relationship now. I am fortunate to have a very loving and gentle T. He does everything he ethically can to nurture me through this process. He has been doing this a long time but my history still throws him now and again. He is away this coming week but the week after is going to be a big session about the neglect.