Things like this just infuriate me. Why do people have to be so .. hateful? Controlling? Stupid? or just a lousy human being to want to cause another person trauma like this ??

I just don’t understand it.

I hope that you and you son can have a heart to heart, he needs to know that in the future it’s not up to him to be the middleman. He should have just told you what she said and then you can deal with her directly.

You live in separate countries yet she unfortunately can pull a wellness check for any reason she wants???

There should be something you can do legally to stop this nonsense.

I am so sorry you have to deal with such utter nonsense