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Old Jul 15, 2019, 06:10 AM
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Yes, I feel generally comfortable talking with my male T about sex, but I do feel really uncomfortable mentioning period stuff. Like, I'll say, "This is TMI, but" ahead of any mention even of just having PMS. One of those times, he said, "Oh my goodness, you have a period???" in a joking tone, and that helped me feel more at ease. I mean, he's married, presumably his wife talks about hers. I realized another area of discomfort last week, when we were talking about drinking, and I was saying how I of course didn't drink while pregnant. He asked if I breastfed, and I said yes, and he was saying he assumed I didn't drink during that period either. I said how a few times, right after she'd eaten, I'd have a light beer. How some people say you have to "pump and dump" if you drink (like get rid of that breastmilk), but from what I've read it actually leaves your breastmilk like it does your blood. And then it suddenly struck me, "Oh, God, I'm talking about breastfeeding and pumping my breasts to my T..." and felt really awkward. He seemed totally fine about it though.
Thanks for this!
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