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Old Jul 15, 2019, 11:07 AM
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I brought it up a while back. I can't remember why. He was really comfortable about it. Said he had women in his life who he loved who had periods which was a sweet way to say it was okay to talk about it. Two weeks ago I was having the period from hell - terrible cramps, heavy bleeding. It was stressing me out. I came into that session and told him I was terrified I was going to bleed on his couch and if I did I would fix it somehow. I was crying so he moved closer which made me feel less like a pariah. We talked about PMS and my fear that if he knew I get moody he would assume it was PMS every time I cried. He won't. We talked about how I find my period very triggering after some stuff my husband did to me. We talked about how he would be a support for me if I decide to go to a GYN because I have some triggers around that. I still feel it's a little embarrassing to talk about, but he makes it feel okay to talk about. My only issue is he used the term "lady bits" once and I don't know how I feel about that.
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