I started talking to a guy online. We met on a app for language exchange. We exchanged numbers and very quicklywe started to become close through our texting. He was very quick to talk sweet to me, I did think this was strange but I allowed myself to get emotionally involved even though we haven't met and there is a lot of distance between us so this is something that realistically can't go anywhere.

He made me feel wanted and talked about coming here but then veery quickly changed his tune. Long story short I feel like I been left confused an that may be he was just after something . All of this has happened before and I have noticed that I very easily become attached and emotionally involved and start fantasising about a future with someone that I haven't even met .

I feel like I obsess over it and it takes me a while to get over things even if it was never something. I would like to stop feeing like this to be able t take my time and not get so swept up easily and just to protect myself