There are only a few sub-groups of people who can thrive without a need for emotional connections with others. Maybe only one sub-group.

So let me ask you a few questions:

How do you feel about the police?

What do you do to alleviate boredom?

How do others characterize you in terms of your emotions? Expressive or aloof? Compassionate or uncaring?

Suppose I were to steal from you the object of your affection. What would you do to get it back?