Thanks for taking the time to even write. I use to cut and use too, but have years sober. I dont know how to make him happy anymore, the kids dont. Overnights began once the kids were born and I am more comfortable sleeping alone anymore..
he will NOT quit overnights, Ive begged.
He doesnt want to work in society 9-5.
Your questions I answered in another response, I am barely holding up to be honest with you I am going through a mental battle.
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Originally Posted by metalchick
He definitely needs help in coping with his feelings. He is hurting everyone around him. I am glad he refrained from using again, but he needs to find a better way to let his feelings out. I am a firm believer that working overnight is hard for everyone especially the person working it. It changes a person and it is unnatural to our bodies. Are the kids there when he is trying to sleep? Is he is taking care of them during the day? Kids are tough too especially when they are young and at that age where you cant take your eyes off of them. I hope you are holding up ok through all of this.
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