It seems clear to me what you need to do now, @justlittleoldme This marriage can't work because SHE DOESN'T WANT TO MAKE IT WORK. Please try to leave her and ask for a divorce, for your own sake and your children's sake. They deserve a better Mom and they deserve to be treated with RESPECT. I am SO SORRY that you have to put up with such a CHILDISH beahvior. It seems like the child in your family is her, not your kids, in my opinion