I've told mine some of it, but not the full extent of how I feel. It's more emotional but I do have sexual thoughts as well. For me, withholding the emotional side was never an option, mainly because I've had similar feelings about other people in the past which was an issue early in my therapy. It was kind of a given that I'd end up transferring all that to her and although it was never explicitly said, T was prepared for it. She is a very safe, validating T, and I have no regrets about telling her. It is something that simply had to come out. Re the sexual stuff, I'm not sure if I could tell her about that. I'm trying to understand why I have them because this is the first time my transference has become sexual. I do feel that she would be okay with hearing it though.