It seems like you're going through a lot, Emily Fox Seaton. I'm so sorry Hang in there. I'm sure you'll get your work done one step at the time. I understand it's stressful. Take it easy and just do what you can. It can REALLY stressful! I'm so sorry that they haven't been listening to you. That's not fair. You've paid them to do a specific job after all. As for your cat, I have no idea what the problem may be Hopefully the Meds will work for him. Bring him to your veterinarian if he keeps acting up. I hope things will adjust soon for you. Sending many safe, warm hugs to you, Emily Fox Seaton, and to ALL the people you Love and who TRULY Love you and Accept you for who you TRULY are!